I’m afraid this is a typical brainwashed British man’s view!
So you think that your wife married you for “love” or “lust”? Right! By the way, how do you define love?
Woman are the same all over the world. They look for a man who will be with them even when they are older and no longer physically attractive (usually in about 5 years time!). Someone who can provide for them and their chicklets!
Do you seriously think British woman can’t wait for you to come home from work to listen to your office ramblings and to make mad passionate love to you on the dining room table! If so, I’m afraid you are sadly deluded! THEY are more likely to not want you to touch them than the pretty young Asian girls you spoke about with their older male partners. At least the young Asian girl feels sexy and knows that her partners finds her very sexy. Lesson one - unless a woman feels sexy and desired she cannot enjoy sex!
Look, let’s cut the crap about love, etc. Men and women get married because they perceive that their partner can enhance their life, in whichever way that may be.
Let’s face it, a female is only young, sexy and beautiful for so long, so once they realise they are coming to the end of their shelf life, they grab whichever man happens to be around who they think will be a decent father to their children, provide companionship, etc., and be there for them when they are older and a lot less attractive.
Let’s face facts, most men are attracted to beautiful young woman, whether they are 20 or 70! Its only western society that tells them it’s wrong for an older man to want to have sex with a young attractive woman. Throughout human history older men have been with younger women. Even in the bible, Solomon married a 17 year old when he was 90!
I’m not saying marriage is wrong. I respect the institution of marriage and I respect any man who decides to remain faithful to his wife. Good for him! But I also think it’s perfectly fine for a SINGLE older man to go with an attractive young woman. Good for him! And don’t assume that it’s all about money for the young woman. I don’t believe the majority of women, from any part of the world, would marry a man just for money – unless it’s a scam, but scams happen in all countries!
Anon.
Wednesday, August 4, 2010
Tuesday, August 3, 2010
A mans response to Europe vs Asian women!
A response from a Western Man.
Clearly, this European woman feels threatened by such strong competition. I fear she will end up with a caring, fat, ugly, poor man. But, it will be love.
Clearly, this European woman feels threatened by such strong competition. I fear she will end up with a caring, fat, ugly, poor man. But, it will be love.
A reply to my European vs Asian women article from a European lady -I rest my case!!!
Its fine to have someone who loves you as your wife and if she's asian and a bit younger then it shouldn't matter. However men are simple, basic and sometimes very stupid individuals. Some women asian and eastern european women target men specifically for the financial gain , passport, family, security back home and whatever else they can get. I've met women like this whilst living in dubai so I am basing this on what I've seen. Anyway you men see a hot lady taking an interest and fall for it. Idiots!
European women sometimes go for men who can provide or have a good job or good prospects etc but not always. Ask an english, spanish or german woman if shed like to meet a man for his passport or for his ability to give her so much money she can help her family back home and she will look at you like your speaking riddles or you've lost the plot. Fact, why would we need a passport out of a 1st world country?! Fact why would we need our families to be paid for when we live in a 1st world country!? We don't need it and don't look for it. So if an european women falls for you, its probably love or lust and it will not be based on your passport that you hold or the offer of paying for my families future as in my mum, dad, family back home!! Usually what you see is what you get with aa european woman and our mentality is if you don't like it..... do one. Because we know that there's men out there who will like us for how we are and be glad we are not after a quick route through immigration to obtain a british passport!
Anyway if you men are stupid enough to fall for some asian or eastern block bit who towel drys you when you shower and think this is lovely, then let me ask you this. How manly do you feel knowing that everytime you touch her she feels sick inside? How do you feel that when you talk to her about your day at work she doesn't give a shit and is thinking how she can get some extra cash to send to her mum in thailand (I know towel dry him!) How do you feel that she can't bear having sex with you as your older or her dads age but she does it for the sake of her aunt in thailand who needs a doctor but can't afford it? How do you feel knowing that she is prostituting herself for you for the rest of your life and when you die shell be relieved? Feel like an idiot? Good. Yes european women could take better care of themselves sometimes but sometimes we don't get all th time why because we are working to earn our own money which provides for our own future and if we are at home ironing your shirts its out of love not because we want your passport or your money. So choose men love and a friend or a whore who doesn't give a toss. And if you choose the whore you deserve to have your bank funds dried up by her!
European women sometimes go for men who can provide or have a good job or good prospects etc but not always. Ask an english, spanish or german woman if shed like to meet a man for his passport or for his ability to give her so much money she can help her family back home and she will look at you like your speaking riddles or you've lost the plot. Fact, why would we need a passport out of a 1st world country?! Fact why would we need our families to be paid for when we live in a 1st world country!? We don't need it and don't look for it. So if an european women falls for you, its probably love or lust and it will not be based on your passport that you hold or the offer of paying for my families future as in my mum, dad, family back home!! Usually what you see is what you get with aa european woman and our mentality is if you don't like it..... do one. Because we know that there's men out there who will like us for how we are and be glad we are not after a quick route through immigration to obtain a british passport!
Anyway if you men are stupid enough to fall for some asian or eastern block bit who towel drys you when you shower and think this is lovely, then let me ask you this. How manly do you feel knowing that everytime you touch her she feels sick inside? How do you feel that when you talk to her about your day at work she doesn't give a shit and is thinking how she can get some extra cash to send to her mum in thailand (I know towel dry him!) How do you feel that she can't bear having sex with you as your older or her dads age but she does it for the sake of her aunt in thailand who needs a doctor but can't afford it? How do you feel knowing that she is prostituting herself for you for the rest of your life and when you die shell be relieved? Feel like an idiot? Good. Yes european women could take better care of themselves sometimes but sometimes we don't get all th time why because we are working to earn our own money which provides for our own future and if we are at home ironing your shirts its out of love not because we want your passport or your money. So choose men love and a friend or a whore who doesn't give a toss. And if you choose the whore you deserve to have your bank funds dried up by her!
European vs Asian women
Having been in the Middle East for some time I have seen numerous older men with young Asian girls.
Sometimes I wonder why the men go for Asian girls especially when they look like mooses, but may or may not have good bodies.
Also, over the years I have studied European women and try to fathom out what they want.
Asian women it's simple - a better life, a husband who will treat them nice and of course some cash.
But this is hissed at by European women, or is it?
I once worked with a Spanish girl who was about 23 and a lovely girl. On a business trip over dinner I asked her what Spanish women thought and the types of men they married. Surprisingly, she said they went for older men, why? Because they have everything the girl wants i.e. House, Money etc. That would explain why there are so many women in black in Spain!
Anyway, back to original note.
European women and especially English are snotty, moody and a number feel they should be equal to men.
Asian women believe in their culture and that is the house and family are their business and also to look after the man.
Whether you call it sub-servient or not I have known an Asian girl to dry the man after a shower etc.
This is what they believe. Also I have noticed in the UAE that Asian women will walk arm in arm with their man and make sure people notice they are together.
I also, look at the girls from my home town. they are loud, alot of them think it's fun to have an enormous beer gut hanging over their trousers. Now this conjurs up a picture of flopping guts and trying to look sexy in underwear (Not).
In Europe girls will try to look nice, but again are a bit butch and there are RULES what they will do and what they won't do as a couple.
Some girls compete with men with their armpit and leg hair, which seems most enticing!!
Asian girls seem to try and look feminine and nice. They seem to know how to please their men and will most certainly look nice for the bedroom and nothing seems to be banned.
So from a man's point of view I am now wondering what is more appealing?
I am no picture, but do I know that there are millions of young women looking for an old git like me to please for a few years.
I wouldn't of course go astray, as I am not like that, but I can understand men who do now and let's face it, it suits both sides and as long as both are happy, then why not.
Even if it's short term, the man is happy and the girl is happy because they get presents and get looked after well for a short time.
Not sure where I was going with this, but I think you may get my drift.
A married womans point of view is that the man has to provide and when he doesn't then they look for someone who can. Now whether that is a short term fling, it's invariably with a younger man.This is because a woman needs to feel wanted. Not because she is necessarily sad or unhappy in her marriage, but she needs to feel attractive again and maybe several times. So a guy will show some attention or flirt and the women feels rejuvenated again.
A Man could have a fling with a younger girl or prostitute, but view it just as a sexual thing, but can still love his wife and will go home to his wife.
But lets take the 3 different stories here:
1. Both can be happy but people will sneer, particularly the family, even if the guy was a widower.
2. The Husband would be expected to take the wife back and if not will be expected to support her financially for her fling, which the courts support eventhought the guy has been wronged.
3. Oh my God apocolypse!! The guy gets screwed big time and is destitute
So I come back to the original point:
How would you view European women vs an Asian woman.?
Sometimes I wonder why the men go for Asian girls especially when they look like mooses, but may or may not have good bodies.
Also, over the years I have studied European women and try to fathom out what they want.
Asian women it's simple - a better life, a husband who will treat them nice and of course some cash.
But this is hissed at by European women, or is it?
I once worked with a Spanish girl who was about 23 and a lovely girl. On a business trip over dinner I asked her what Spanish women thought and the types of men they married. Surprisingly, she said they went for older men, why? Because they have everything the girl wants i.e. House, Money etc. That would explain why there are so many women in black in Spain!
Anyway, back to original note.
European women and especially English are snotty, moody and a number feel they should be equal to men.
Asian women believe in their culture and that is the house and family are their business and also to look after the man.
Whether you call it sub-servient or not I have known an Asian girl to dry the man after a shower etc.
This is what they believe. Also I have noticed in the UAE that Asian women will walk arm in arm with their man and make sure people notice they are together.
I also, look at the girls from my home town. they are loud, alot of them think it's fun to have an enormous beer gut hanging over their trousers. Now this conjurs up a picture of flopping guts and trying to look sexy in underwear (Not).
In Europe girls will try to look nice, but again are a bit butch and there are RULES what they will do and what they won't do as a couple.
Some girls compete with men with their armpit and leg hair, which seems most enticing!!
Asian girls seem to try and look feminine and nice. They seem to know how to please their men and will most certainly look nice for the bedroom and nothing seems to be banned.
So from a man's point of view I am now wondering what is more appealing?
I am no picture, but do I know that there are millions of young women looking for an old git like me to please for a few years.
I wouldn't of course go astray, as I am not like that, but I can understand men who do now and let's face it, it suits both sides and as long as both are happy, then why not.
Even if it's short term, the man is happy and the girl is happy because they get presents and get looked after well for a short time.
Not sure where I was going with this, but I think you may get my drift.
A married womans point of view is that the man has to provide and when he doesn't then they look for someone who can. Now whether that is a short term fling, it's invariably with a younger man.This is because a woman needs to feel wanted. Not because she is necessarily sad or unhappy in her marriage, but she needs to feel attractive again and maybe several times. So a guy will show some attention or flirt and the women feels rejuvenated again.
A Man could have a fling with a younger girl or prostitute, but view it just as a sexual thing, but can still love his wife and will go home to his wife.
But lets take the 3 different stories here:
1. Both can be happy but people will sneer, particularly the family, even if the guy was a widower.
2. The Husband would be expected to take the wife back and if not will be expected to support her financially for her fling, which the courts support eventhought the guy has been wronged.
3. Oh my God apocolypse!! The guy gets screwed big time and is destitute
So I come back to the original point:
How would you view European women vs an Asian woman.?
Monday, August 2, 2010
Blackberry's being banned in UAE from October
All communications are screened by the government here and because Blackberry have encryption they can't do this. So the answer is to ban it.
Now UAE is trying to sell itself as the centre of the universe for business and travelling, which means people that have Blackberry's when travelling ( guests to UAE and business people) won't be able to use them in the UAE. This seems a little inconvenient.
Now with one retail outlet claiming outrageously to sell 3000 units a week, I think there will be the inevitable compromise before 11/10/2010.
Big Brother still lives!!
Now UAE is trying to sell itself as the centre of the universe for business and travelling, which means people that have Blackberry's when travelling ( guests to UAE and business people) won't be able to use them in the UAE. This seems a little inconvenient.
Now with one retail outlet claiming outrageously to sell 3000 units a week, I think there will be the inevitable compromise before 11/10/2010.
Big Brother still lives!!
Sunday, August 1, 2010
Extremely stressful weekend in UK
I arrived on Thursday morning in the UK.
Being with the family was nice.
However, things started going wrong yesterday (Saturday) evening when I walked out of my wife's friends BBQ at 12.30am.
My wife's friend is a bigot (wife agrees) who only has her opinion and shouts everyone else down.
Anyway she was sounding off about a family get together and how she didn't want to do it etc. Now bearing in mind some were there at the BBQ, they all kept their mouths shut.
I, however couldn't and suggested that perhaps there was another issue and that is family values. Perhaps other people thought it nice to do something that had family together just once a year.
At this point she started shouting (she is an alcoholic) and approached me on the fact that she knew more about family values and she knew more than me. This was about to launch on me never being at home with the family, but away working earning money.
I then got up and told my wife, that I would be in the car when she was ready.
This was the first and the second:
My wife explained that a nephew's new baby born looked like a Japanese person. My sister in law agreed and that was what they used to say about our nephew and they laughed about it.
I went to a family function today and asked how the jap baby was and I was slated by my sister in law.!!!She was upset! Why when she had been laughing with my wife about it?
I also went today, to explain to my sister why I am not going to her daughters wedding, due to my values. I hope I did this ok, as I wouldn't want to hurt my sister. My parents told me years ago that if the kids are not invited to a function, that they wouldn't go, so I have done the same for many years. Also, I find it very hypocritical to go to an invitation when those people haven't contacted you before, or even sent a card of any sort etc.
At this point I have now come to realize that I am socially inept and really shouldn't have any friends at all!
The few friends I do have usually understand me and don't get too upset at what I say, or do and I treasure their friendship immeasurably!
Being with the family was nice.
However, things started going wrong yesterday (Saturday) evening when I walked out of my wife's friends BBQ at 12.30am.
My wife's friend is a bigot (wife agrees) who only has her opinion and shouts everyone else down.
Anyway she was sounding off about a family get together and how she didn't want to do it etc. Now bearing in mind some were there at the BBQ, they all kept their mouths shut.
I, however couldn't and suggested that perhaps there was another issue and that is family values. Perhaps other people thought it nice to do something that had family together just once a year.
At this point she started shouting (she is an alcoholic) and approached me on the fact that she knew more about family values and she knew more than me. This was about to launch on me never being at home with the family, but away working earning money.
I then got up and told my wife, that I would be in the car when she was ready.
This was the first and the second:
My wife explained that a nephew's new baby born looked like a Japanese person. My sister in law agreed and that was what they used to say about our nephew and they laughed about it.
I went to a family function today and asked how the jap baby was and I was slated by my sister in law.!!!She was upset! Why when she had been laughing with my wife about it?
I also went today, to explain to my sister why I am not going to her daughters wedding, due to my values. I hope I did this ok, as I wouldn't want to hurt my sister. My parents told me years ago that if the kids are not invited to a function, that they wouldn't go, so I have done the same for many years. Also, I find it very hypocritical to go to an invitation when those people haven't contacted you before, or even sent a card of any sort etc.
At this point I have now come to realize that I am socially inept and really shouldn't have any friends at all!
The few friends I do have usually understand me and don't get too upset at what I say, or do and I treasure their friendship immeasurably!
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